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Will you be my girlfriend? Ask with a link

Your question, a plan for your first date as a couple, and a No button with a mind of its own. One link — and you get the answer the moment they tap.

Ask her — free

Write the question and the plan

Their name, then your first official date — a day, a time and a place. Add a few words of your own; the note is the part they’ll remember.

Send one link

By text, WhatsApp, Instagram or Snapchat. It opens on their phone in a second — nothing to install.

Get your answer

They read it, try to press No (it runs away), and tap Yes. It shows up in your private dashboard straight away.

Lines to make it official

Tap one and it goes straight into your note — you can change every word.

  • I’ve been calling you my favourite person in my head for weeks. Can I make it official?
  • I don’t want to date anyone else — and I’m done pretending to play it cool.
  • You make ordinary days feel like plans. Let’s make it official. 💞
  • I asked my friends what to do. They all said “just ask”. So — will you?
  • Fair warning: the No button has trust issues. The Yes doesn’t.
  • Our first date as a couple is on me. All you have to do is say yes.

Know where you stand

This is a next step, not a first move. If you’ve been on a few dates, talk most days and see each other regularly, asking just puts a name on what’s already happening.

Ask, then talk

A link is a sweet way to pop the question, not a replacement for the conversation. Send it when you can follow up in person — or while you’re sitting next to each other, so you see the reaction.

Attach a plan

Make the yes easy to act on. The ticket carries your first date as a couple: a day, a time and a place.

Give them a minute

Don’t hover over your phone. If they need a moment, that’s fine — the answer lands in your dashboard whenever they’re ready.

Frequently asked questions

Is it free?

Yes. Making and sending the link is free — no sign-up, no watermark. Fancier ticket designs are an optional extra, priced before you pay.

Can I ask someone to be my boyfriend instead?

Yes. Switch to “For him” at the top of this page — same link, same runaway No, with the question worded for him.

Isn’t a link too casual for this?

It’s as casual as you make it. Most people send it as a playful lead-in and talk properly after — or send it while they’re together, to see the reaction live.

Does the No button really run away?

It does — it bolts from a tap, dodges a mouse and hides behind a teddy or a plant. It’s a joke: the page only records a yes, so if they’re not ready they simply won’t press it.

How will I see their answer?

With the link you get a private dashboard link of your own. The answer appears there the moment they tap — keep that link to yourself.

Do they need an app?

No. It opens in any browser on any phone, including inside Instagram, Snapchat and WhatsApp. Nothing to install, no account.