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The Relationship Check — a couples quiz you both take separately, on one phone

Questions about how the two of you actually work — who apologises first, who walks out of the room, who ends up in charge, who carries the noticing. Pick your depth (24 questions in three minutes, or all 70), answer them, then hand the phone over and they answer the same ones without seeing a single one of your answers. You both read one report comparing the two sets side by side. Free to start, no sign-up, nothing saved.

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A relationship check you take separately

No links to send and no accounts. You answer a run of “who?” questions, the screen goes blank behind a cover, and your partner answers the same ones blind. Because neither of you sees the other’s answers first, the comparison is honest — which is the entire point of the format.

Three depths, one report

Quick is 24 questions in two or three minutes: compatibility score, couple type, green flag score, top strengths and the fun comparisons. Standard is 45 and adds communication, trust, conflict style, love language, emotional support, money, future goals, the roles you each play and personalised advice. Complete is all 70 across ten categories — jealousy and boundaries, emotional maturity, decision making, lifestyle and adventure, the patterns worth watching, and the full category scores. Sections only appear when enough of your answers support them, so nothing is guessed at.

The report puts both of you on one line

Every question becomes a single comparison with both of your answers on it, and the gap between them is the thing we highlight. You get a compatibility score, a couple type, green flags per person, a category-by-category breakdown, playful “who’s more likely to” comparisons, and three things worth actually talking about tonight.

Patterns, not labels

Nobody gets called toxic, and nobody gets named the villain. Every result describes something a person does on a Tuesday — behaviours that can change — drawn from questions built on established couples research: Gottman’s conflict work, attribution research in marriage, and the demand–withdraw pattern. It is a quiz, not a diagnosis.

Then turn it into a date

Finished arguing about who says “always” first? Make it up properly — one tap turns your result into a real date-night invitation with a reveal, mini-games and an RSVP. Free to make, no watermark.